Dating shy quiet guy
Only then was it clear that she’d been hoping we might click on a romantic level. Shy, like breaking into a sweat when paying a compliment?He seems nice enough, I told her, but clearly is not into me because he never really flirted. All my life, the men I’d been attracted to were extroverts who told jokes and held court like royalty — and they flirted and seduced quite skillfully.More often than not, these are the cheaters, the one night stands and the oh-so-familiar guys with “plenty of other options.” It’s time we considered the introvert that stands on the sidelines of a game of beer-pong with the quiet but witty observations.Here’s why it’s time to take a stand for the quiet guys: It can be easy to get lost in the eyes of smooth talkers, head turners, and the social celebrities of your town, but don’t let the boisterous personality of a guy in the spotlight lure you into a toxic relationship.So, which techniques can help you get out of your head so that you can actually relax and enjoy your date?First, wear a distracting clothing item or accessory.I also wrote a follow up to this article on some of the unique issues shy women struggle with.
Over the years several women have written me to tell me reading this site has helped them understand the actions of a shy guy they were pursuing.
When it was just the two of us, his words were still limited, but flowed more smoothly.
He talked about his job (he worked for a Silicon Valley startup), loved independent films and had three sisters.
With that in mind I thought I'd try to be even more helpful and write a whole article outlining what it's like to be a man who's really shy and inexperienced with women.
At the end I give a few thoughts on what to do if there's a shy guy in your life you're interested in.