Christian principles of dating etc
We have brothers and sisters in Christ to hold us accountable and to help us apply the Word to our lives.
If you’re a Christian, that’s the biblical life you’re called to. We may define The Scriptural support for the idea of biblical dating is largely by example and implication.
When deciding to date someone of another faith, someone with no faith or someone who does not have any definitive beliefs, the first question to answer is: “What is the purpose of dating?
” In our opinion, the purpose of dating is to find a spouse.
King Solomon ignores this and marries a whole slew of women and eventually watches himself and his kingdom drift far from God.
Samson found himself in messes because he continuously went after women who didn’t share his faith.
Since we started this series on answering dating questions, one of the things I’ve been asked about the most is my opinion of online dating or dating apps.
Hopefully, people don’t just want my opinion on anything, but rather want to know what the Bible says on the issue.
Indeed, the central issue we need to confront — and the reason I write and speak on this topic — is that when it comes to dating and relationships, perhaps more than in any other area of the everyday Christian life, the church is largely indistinguishable from the world.
That’s what I hope this will be about — applying God’s Word to the topic of dating, finding a spouse, and getting married. We will look at a number of passages over the course of our discussions that support various aspects of biblical dating, but for the moment, let me just give you some references to study: I Corinthians 6:9- (command to be pure, seriousness of sexual sin and instructions regarding marriage) I Thessalonians 4:1-8 (do not wrong or one another in relationships — by implying a relationship or commitment by your words or conduct that does not actually exist) Song of Solomon 2:7 (“do not awaken love before it pleases” — i.e.
before the proper time, meaning marriage) Proverbs - (warning to avoid sexual sin and foolish relationships) James -15 (temptation is to be taken very seriously) Romans 13:8-14 (love others, work for their soul’s good; don’t look to please self) Romans 14:1-15:7 (favor others, not self …
If you have embraced God’s principles for romance (Chapter 1), renounced worldly dating (Chapter 2), prepared your children for betrothal (Chapter 3), and understood biblical guidance (Chapter 4), then you are ready to explore the actual practice of biblical courtship and betrothal, the constructing of a godly marriage.
In Jesus’ graphic parable of the Two Houses in Matthew -27, our Lord compares the Christian life with two ways of building a house: one upon shifting sand (man’s ways), the other upon solid rock (Christ’s ways).